Financial domination, or findom, combines power exchange with monetary transactions. While the basics are somewhat obvious, finding new ways to engage in financial humiliation can renew the fun over and over again.
Here are a few findom play ideas we have to keep things fresh or spice them up:
1. The Classic Tribute
Let's start with the bread and butter of findom: the tribute. A tribute is the term of when a Finsub sends a predetermined amount of money to their dom or ‘goddess.’ But why stop at a simple transfer? Get creative with your tributes!:
- Recurring Tributes: Set up a "findom salary" where your sub pays a set amount on a regular schedule.
- Surprise Tributes: As a dom, you can randomly demand a tribute, keeping the sub on their toes and you in control.
- Escalating Tributes: Start small and gradually increase the amount over time, putting subs into the pressure cooker.
Remember, the thrill is in the power exchange. A well-timed demand can be as exciting as the amount itself.
2. Task-Based Tributes
Continuing with the tribute theme, why not make your precious paypig work for the privilege of giving? You can assign tasks or challenges to subs, with the privilege of providing for their dom when they succeed:
- Chore Challenges: Each household task completed equals a set tribute amount.
- Fitness Goals: The submissive pays for every workout completed (or skipped, if you're feeling devious).
- Achievements at Work: Promotions or completed projects at work can allow the sub to engage in some celebratory tributes.
This approach adds an element of accomplishment to the financial submission, creating a win-win situation for both parties.
3. The Wishlist Worship
Most findoms maintain wishlists on popular shopping sites for their subs to gift at any time. As a sub, you can turn wishlist fulfillment into an art form:
- Wishlist Roulette: The sub randomly selects an item to purchase, with different price tags to make things more interesting.
- Earned Wishes: Your findom sets goals for their sub, and when the sub reaches them, their achievement unlocks wishlist items to purchase and receive higher praise for.
- Wishlist Auctions: Multiple submissives compete to fulfill a particular wishlist item, making them fight for the doms’ attention.
4. Expense Management
Take control of your submissive's finances:
- Budget Approval: The submissive must get expenses approved before spending.
- Expense Reports: Require detailed reports of all spending, with "fines" for unapproved expenses that make for interesting life control.
- Savings Challenges: Set savings goals, with the dom keeping a percentage of the saved amount.
Obviously, when you get into this level of control, it requires a high degree of trust and clear boundaries. Make sure you’re ready!
5. Financial Forfeit Games
Turn financial domination into a game with high stakes:
- Trivia Nights: Where wrong answers cost money and perhaps it gets more difficult as it goes on.
- Dice Rolling: The sub rolls dice to determine tribute amounts.
- Card Games: Play games like blackjack or poker with real money, but provide the house with some “house rules”—and the house always wins.
The element of chance adds excitement but remember to avoid overspending. Treat this kind of play like gambling and know your limits!
6. Luxury Leasing
Why should the dominant have all the fun? Let your submissive taste luxury... for a price:
- Rental Rewards: The sub pays to "rent" luxuries the dom owns, creating a humiliating loop between buying the luxury and then having it rent it back for themselves.
- Experience Auctions: Bid on the chance to accompany the dom to high-end events or other experiences – even a moment with their goddess can make it all worth it.
- Temporary Upgrades: The paypig pays for certain lifestyle upgrades, and the dom controls their access and privileges.
This play idea can be particularly thrilling for submissives with a taste for the finer things in life.
7. Financial Humiliation
Some submissives crave the embarrassment aspect of findom. If this appeals to you, consider:
- Public Purchase Challenges: The submissive buys embarrassing items in public, showing they are wasteful or broke with their cash.
- Receipt Sharing: The submissive shares all receipts, with the dominant providing humiliating commentary on their lackluster finances and inability to provide.
- Allowance Control: You can only provide the sub with a small allowance, making the submissive ask for every penny and live in squalor with their own hard-earned cash.
Remember, humiliation play requires careful negotiation. Some of these are quite extreme lifestyle practices and need to be built up to, with lots of trust between the dom and sub already pre-established.
8. Digital Domination
Most Findom play is done online through findom site, and there are certain things that only really work in that space, so why not take advantage?
- Cam Show Tributes: The sub pays for private cam sessions.
- Social Media Control: The submissive pays for the right to view the dom's private social media, giving them access to a more exclusive inner circle of content.
- App-Based Domination: Use financial domination apps to track tributes and tasks and help organize general findom play.
9. Financial Training
For those who view findom as a lifestyle, consider financial training scenarios:
- Investment Challenges: The submissive invests money under the dom's guidance - this can actually help their finances in the long run (or crash it, so beware of the risks).
- Budgeting Boot Camps: The dom creates strict budgets for the submissive to follow, which can help people who are terrible with their spending.
- Financial Education: The sub pays for financial education materials chosen by the dom.
This approach can have real-world benefits beyond the bedroom, but always consult a professional for serious financial matters.
10. Charity Challenges
For those who want to add a philanthropic twist to their findom play, you can add different forms of gamified donations into your sessions:
- Matching Donations: The sub matches the dom's donations to chosen charities - not too much finplay here, but a nice appeasing gesture.
- Volunteer Valuations: Assign a monetary value to volunteer hours, paid as a tribute, doubling the good deeds!
- Charity Auctions: Participate in real charity auctions, with the dom choosing the causes and sometimes helping to push out the checkbook.
This can add a feel-good factor to your findom activities, but it's not the most common thing in the community. Just something to consider if generosity interests you.
Findom play can be awesome, but only when practiced responsibly. There’s the thrill of spontaneous tributes or the long-term control of expense management, and everything in between.
Remember, the key to successful findom play is clear communication. Always prioritize consent and financial responsibility. Start small, be creative, and most importantly, have fun with it.