Financial domination (findom) is quickly becoming one of the most popular fetishes in BDSM, with countless people looking to get their kink on by being financially dominated, typically by a hot dominatrix.
While findom has flown under the BDSM radar for years, more people than ever are beginning to explore this unique submissive and dominant relationship. Like any sub-dom relationships, there are distinct roles in findom – the paypig (the sub) and the mistress/dominatrix (the dom).
Findom’s rise in popularity means that more are familiar with the BDSM subculture, leading some people to confuse it with similar types of kinky relationships, most notably a sugar daddy.
There are quite a few similarities between a findom and sugar daddy relationship, so it’s easy to see why many people aren’t quite sure of the differences between each one.
So, if you are unsure of the differences between a paypig and sugar daddy, we’ve got you covered with our handy guide.
Paypig
A paypig is the submissive partner in the findom dynamic that is dominated by a mistress or dominatrix. Unlike traditional BDSM sub-dom dynamics, there is usually no physical domination (like spanking or bondage) between a paypig and his mistress.
Instead, the paypig submits to financial domination, where he will give his mistress or dominatrix money and gifts, known as tributes. It may seem like an odd dynamic, but the truth is that paypigs get turned on by being financially dominated, so it’s a role they’re more than happy to play.
Like with other BDSM relationships, a paypig and dominatrix usually have a pre-agreed contract where they set out rules for their relationship.
These are usually a list of demands that a dominatrix uses to financially dominate her paying in different ways, whether it’s sending over a chunk of paycheck, giving access to savings, or being sent out to buy some sexy lingerie or footwear.
Along with their being no physical domination, paypigs often never see their mistress in person! Most of their interactions happen remotely by phone, text, or email, so it’s quite different from your more conventional sub-dom relationships common in BDSM.
Paypigs have become more popular thanks to the rise of online dating – there’s now lots of financial dominatrix sites that make it easier for paypigs to find their dream mistress.
Sugar Daddy
A sugar daddy is someone, usually an older and financially successful man, that lavishes a partner (sometimes known as a sugar baby) with luxurious gifts like jewelry, clothes, fine dining, vacations etc.
Their partners are often younger, attractive women that are happy to give back some ‘sugar’ as part of their relationship dynamic. The ‘sugar’ on offer varies from each relationship, but it’s usually some form of intimate companionship.
Sugar daddies typically have a very successful career and plenty of money to burn, living a premium lifestyle that they are eager to share with a sugar baby. Online dating has helped increase the popularity of sugar daddies, with various sugar daddy sites helping connect people looking for this type of relationship.
What are the Differences?
Because paypigs and sugar daddies both give gifts and/or money to their mistress and sugar babies, a lot of people confuse the two roles. However, there’s quite a few notable differences between a paypig and a sugar daddy.
The obvious difference between the two is that a paypig never has a physical relationship with his dominatrix. Being a sugar daddy usually means you’re receiving some form of intimacy or companionship in return for sharing your luxurious lifestyle.
Another noteworthy difference between a paypig and sugar daddy is that sugar daddies are not part of the BDSM subculture. A paypig is a submissive person that shares a power dynamic with a dominant partner, in this case their mistress or dominatrix.
Sugar daddies don’t have a submissive role in their relationship, and there is usually no BDSM dynamics involved. They’re not being dominated by their partner (although some might enjoy it!) and tend to share a more traditional companionship with them instead – there just happens to be a lot of gifts and luxury involved!
A paypig gets most of his satisfaction from being financially dominated. He’s not interested in companionship or an intimate relationship with his dominatrix – he wants to enjoy playing a submissive role where his finances are controlled by a strong woman.
Conclusion
There’re a few differences between a paypig and sugar daddy, with paypigs being a type of submissive partner that enjoys being financially dominated. Sugar daddies are simply successful, older men that share their wealth with an attractive, younger partner in exchange for companionship.
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